El Diario de Alessandra: “Entre Sudor y Pintura”

Danilo uno de los chicos de la casa de huéspedes de mis abuelos, fue quien me observó aquella noche mientras jugueteaba con Mateo frente a la chimenea. A pesar de ser un chico un poco tímido crucé algunas palabras con él descubriendo que se trataba de un estudiante de pintura; en una de mis propuestas de que me pintara, me ofreció algo digamos interesante… Ser la modelo de la clase de pintura con sus compañeros en la Escuela de Arte, confieso que inicialmente dude en decirle que si, luego de pensarlo un poco llegué a la conclusión que sería algo diferente y excitante estar a la vista de un grupo de chicos para ser su Musa.

Llegó entonces el momento, la emoción me invadió, decidí lucir mi hermosa braga negra un tanto transparente, aunque tenía muy claro que debía estar totalmente desnuda en ese momento y nadie tenía que ver mi ropa interior, me atraía el hecho de desvestirme frente al grupo. Llegado el momento así lo hice, simulé que no tenía conocimiento de que debía ser así entonces la dejé intencionalmente puesta quitándomela frente al grupo, entonces le pedí al profesor de pintura, un hombre mayor con barba blanca y una cola de caballo, que me quitara el sujetador, los broches eran algo difícil de desatar, pude sentir sus manos frías cuando roso mi espalada, aunque quería mostrar firmeza estaba algo nervioso, lo sabía.Luego un tenso silencio protagonizó el momento cuando me quitaba lentamente mi braga negra, enredándose en uno mis tacones lo que me “obligó” a pedirle a uno de los chicos que me ayudará con ello.
En fin, llegó el momento. Mientras Danilo me decía que posición iba a adoptar, el profesor indicaba las pautas a seguir para la clase, los focos se encendieron, estos iluminaban todo mi cuerpo haciéndome sentir muy caliente, no lo puedo negar, estaba un poco nerviosa, emocionada y excitada, era el centro de total atención de 20 chicos aproximadamente algunos de ellos no podían simular su deseo, sus caras hablaban por si solas y eso me enloquecía, mis labios íntimos se empapaban dentro de mi abertura y ardían intensamente, la excitación del profesor de Pintura no podía mitigarse, no podía ocultar su prominente reacción ante mi desnudez. Me sentía exuberante, mi vientre se distendía y contraía al compás de mi fogosidad, incluso llegué a pensar que tendría un orgasmo en ese instante, pero quería controlarme, ya tenia otras intenciones en mente, me causaba una ineludible atracción el profesor de arte, disfrutaba mirándolo fijamente mientras mordía mi labio inferior.
Una vez terminada la clase su mirada marco la invitación, se dirigió a su salón a guardar sus paletas y pinceles, yo me puse mi bata entrando por “equivocación” a su estudio, no hubo palabras, saque mi bata deslizándose al suelo estando nuevamente desnuda frente a él pero esta vez totalmente solos, comencé a jugar con sus pinceles pasándolos por la aureola de mis senos, invitándolo a hacer lo propio, sus manos comenzaron a tocar todo mi cuerpo, manchándonos de pintura, mostrando algo de desesperación, comenzó a besar mi cuello mientras desabotonaba su pantalón, encontrándose rápidamente desnudo en su parte inferior, mostrándome su gran excitación.
Comenzó a jugar con mi abertura, haciendo caricias con su pincel intercalando con sus dedos y su lengua, me encantaba como su barba rozaba en ella. Inmediatamente me tomó en sus brazos subiéndome al mesón y embistiéndome con fuerza toda su pasión con movimientos dominantes. Una diversidad de posiciones mórbidas eran protagonistas, el placer nos acechaba, besos, caricias, sus manos, las mías nos llevaban al límite del placer; ya en el piso un majestuoso y húmedo orgasmo deleito el fascinante momento, terminando abatidos sobre la alfombra testigo del momento entre sudor y pintura.

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Enlaces relacionados:El Diario de Alessandra: “Solo mi cobija lo sabe”,El Diario de Alessandra: “Unas copas tuvieron la culpa”, El Diario de Alessandra: “Deseos”

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Effective communication? What’s your style?

Considering that any act performed by the human being can be taken as a behavior, human communication could then be defined as a set of behaviors through which human beings exchange ideas, thoughts, opinions, feelings, modes and activities. We could also define it as the means by which ideas are transmitted, being the information effective when it is clear, and the receiver transmits the message with the same accuracy with which it is sent. The transmission of this information is done by means of a message that has been coded. It is important to emphasize that this process of collecting, sending and interpreting messages will allow people to understand and express their experiences, needs and concerns.

Sometimes we ask ourselves if the way we communicate is effective, if our style of reacting and developing, or if our environment in all areas of our life, work, personal, loving is being the most suitable, let’s see then which is the style of communication that predominates in each one of us or we could also investigate if we have a combination of them.

In today’s world it is important for human beings to learn that there are at least three different styles of communicating with peers and superiors: assertive, aggressive and passive, which should be used consciously in the different situations that arise, asserting their rights as a person but without attacking others and without submitting to them, as this would result in the deterioration of interpersonal relationships.These styles refer to the way people can be treated.

The Passive Style: takes no action or, at best, as little action as possible. Not only does he not do anything to solve the problem, he does not even try to avoid it. Behind this attitude is a feeling of inferiority caused by the belief that one does not have to face the threats and therefore it is not as visible as possible to go unnoticed. It’s a non-winning attitude. Generally, this style of communication does not allow the person to openly express his or her ideas and in some cases allow others to trample or manipulate them without taking action.

The Aggressive Style: to manage people is active, but it is a behavior aimed at eliminating the problem by attacking and defeating the opponent. This behaviour not only fails to take into account the needs of the latter but even refuses to acknowledge the existence of a problem between the two. This style is based on the assumption that “for me to win you have to lose, since the only way for me to achieve my purpose is for you not to achieve yours”. It doesn’t matter how, or when, but he gets what he wants by passing over the other.

The Assertive Style: it does not adopt the upper style but neither does the lower one, it assumes that the two people are equal as such. Regardless of their hierarchical position, they are treated with respect. Assertive style recognizes that both sides have a problem that needs to be solved and that the best way to do this is to cooperate with each other. The essence of this style is that in any type of social system all its members need the help of others, they speak and express themselves frankly, express their desires and do not allow themselves to be manipulated or humiliated by anyone, know what they want and are aware that they can achieve it without running over their fellow man.

People can and are free to choose any style of communication in their personal interactions. At one end they can be extremely passive, while at the other they can be aggressive. The advantages of using an assertive way of interacting with others and avoiding being passive and aggressive should be kept in mind

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“To communicate effectively, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this knowledge as a guide for our communication with others.”
Anthony Robbins.

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Inocencia Escondida

Un día más, despiertas, son las 10 de la mañana, aún con maquillaje en tus ojos, aún con vestigios de una noche indeseable pero real, entonces en tu cama un suspiro profundo sale de ti, piensas en tu familia, en la mentira de un empleo digno, tus padres necesitan subsistir, pagar la universidad es tu prioridad, sientes que debes hacerlo, aunque no quieras, cada día intentas ignorar el pasado, borras el ayer.
Suena el teléfono, una nueva cita se suma a tu agenda, ejecutivo de saco y corbata estará a tu espera esta noche, el dinero abunda, sentimientos se enfrentan dentro de ti, alegría, alivio, molestia, rabia, es entonces cuando te preguntas por qué lo haces, es entonces cuando deseas borrar aquel día cuando tu amiga te convenció de hacerlo, es entonces cuando reconoces que la vanidad y deseo de ser hermosa nubló tu razón.
Aunque tu apariencia es diferente, tu hermosura inefable y tu sensualidad desbordante, aunque tus ojos brillen con un falso azul y tu cabellera larga y abundante atraen a quienes se cruzan en tu camino, sigues siendo aquella chica sencilla, natural, que a veces se asoma a mirar ese mundo duro, pero que obligas a esconder dentro de ti.
No eres ella y lo sabes, desconoces a la chica del espejo, maquillaje, cirugías y voluptuosidad te caracterizan, prendas hermosas te adornan, obsequios lujosos recibes y te embellecen, y lugares costosos ahora frecuentas, ellos te exhiben como premio, ellos te muestran como suya, y aunque seas flajeada por la sociedad, no te importa, aunque tus sueños sean arrancados tú decidiste ese camino.
Entonces llega la hora en que no quieres pensar, en que deseas que el tiempo haga su vuelo, el momento en que él desnuda tu vergüenza, cuando desprende tu sujetador las caricias de sus manos son como espinas, es cuando te invade la aversión, la repulsión, el hastío, es cuando debes aceptar que tu cuerpo no te pertenece, es cuando no quieres pensar, no quieres respirar, pero debes hacerlo, debes sonreír, hacer tu trabajo y hacerlo feliz…
Despiertas,un día más, son las 10 de la mañana, luego de darte una larga ducha donde intentas borrar esa noche, la amnesia se vuelve tu mejor amiga, te arreglas, porque el Centro Comercial espera por ti…

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No duermas…!

Mientras duermes,
en la profundidad de la noche,
acompañando a la tempestad desatada,
el gemir del viento la traerá con él,
entonces rodeará tu cama
observará tu sueño y
propiciará tus pesadillas.
Mientras duermes
cuando la lluvia sea incesante y fría
en la soledad de tu habitación,
estará sentada al pie de tu cama
incitando tus miedos y temores.
Mientras duermes
y la tenue luz de las velas te acompañe,
su reflejo pasará rápidamente frente a ti
intentando tomar tu alma,
descubriendo tus oscuros secretos
para alimentarse de ellos.
Mientras duermes
cuando el viento abra tu ventana violentamente,
cuando tu piel se erize y el gélido clima te arrope,
despierta,
porque ella estará cerca de ti.
Entonces la verás sentada frente al espejo
y mientras cepilla su cabellera negra
escucharás una carcajada dantesca y burlona
que como un eco lejano torturará tus oídos,
intentará mirarte a los ojos para decirte que viene por ti.

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Organizational Climate… How to promote it in an optimal way?.

It is understood that the organizational climate refers to the internal environment among the members of the organization and is closely related to the motivation of those who are part of it, that is, its participants. However, regardless of how it is conceived, of the approach adopted, of the characterization or typologies of the climate, there is a significant consensus that the organizational climate is a dimension of quality of working life, with an influence on the development of the human talent of a company and therefore on its productivity.

In the same way, the organizational climate has a great effect on the behavior of the members of the organization, because it represents what is happening and, therefore, it will influence the disposition of the members to face their activities. An adequate climate will result in better performance, coordination, productivity and will make it possible to approach excellence.

When the working relationships between employees, managers and other managers are effective within a company, then the organizational climate will be highly optimal and high quality work will undoubtedly emerge.

It is important to mention that the organizational climate has been present in man since the beginning of each workday. In the twentieth century, new research trends began in this administrative area of great importance for any company, in terms of organization, in order to create an environment conducive to the worker, in order to better perform the work within the company.

Those who have the responsibility of being leaders of an organization or company, it is necessary that they are aware of the organizational climate that is lived among its employees and with all those entities or organizations, such as customers or suppliers with whom they generally maintain relationships

How to foster an optimal organizational climate in a company?

It is essential that for organizations, large and small, to make significant progress, they must be immersed in a good work environment that generates productivity and good relations among those who are part of it. In this sense, it is necessary that the working environment be satisfactory and stimulating for all. Among some aspects that can serve as a basis for fostering an optimal climate are described below:

  • Spread respect. It is very important to promote harmony, tolerance and respect among the staff, in order to generate good interpersonal relations between employees in any situation.
  • Maintain communication with employees. The existence of an adequate interaction between the manager or leader of the organization and the employees will allow not only to obtain or consider their opinions or ideas for the benefit of the company, but also to have knowledge of the problems or circumstances, discontents that could be generated in the personnel and to recognize those people who reduce its value and that in some way impede its progress.
  • Controlling crises at the company level. In difficult circumstances that the organization or company may be going through, it is of vital importance to keep calm and show the staff that you have control of the situation, thus generating confidence, this will help the working environment of the company
  • Take staff into account when making decisions. Under any circumstance, changes, new projects to be implemented in the organization it would be important to involve the staff through their opinions on the matter or propose solutions as the case may be.
  • Gain the employee’s trust. Recognizing the work of employees, recognizing their successes, thanking them for their work, will encourage staff to come closer and trust their superiors more, this will serve as an incentive to feel comfortable in the workplace and to go to the boss in case of any doubt or problem
  • As managers and leaders in an organization it is important to bear in mind that a pleasant work environment will have a direct impact on the productivity of the employee, perhaps it will not be an easy task and it will probably take some time to crystallize it, however there is no doubt that its implementation will bring multiple benefits, effective performance, consolidated work teams and consequently goals and objectives achieved in the organization.

    “The way an individual behaves depends not only on his or her personal characteristics, but also on the way he or she perceives his or her working environment and the components of his or her organization”.

    Kurt Lewin

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    Touch you!

    Touch you, feel you, love you
    Walk your being with the subtle rose of my fingers,
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    To climb your mountains to the top of them
    and park there like I’m kissing the sky,
    down to your leg again
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    Touch you and feel you, love you
    My hands play at being naughty.
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    Cuando escribes…!

    Cuando escribes te expresas,
    el papel atrapa lo más puros sentimientos,
    tu imaginación te transporta y
    los sentimientos del alma se apoderan de ti.
    Cuando escribes creas;
    tu musa entra por la ventana
    te mira a los ojos
    y regala melodías a tus dedos.
    Cuando escribes te desnudas,
    amores, miedos, temores y desamores
    salen de lo más recóndito,
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    Cuando escribes te desahogas,
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    multiplicas la vida, vences la muerte.
    eres intocable y eterna.
    Cuando escribes sientes, ideas y sensaciones
    se producen en tu cabeza sin permiso,
    y los sacas de ti porque te han vencido
    la pasión se adueña de ti y tus emociones
    y te retas a hechizar al mundo.
    Cuando escribes percibes la libertad
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    When you write, you express yourself,
    paper captures the purest feelings,
    your imagination transports you and
    the feelings of the soul take hold of you.

    When you write you believe.
    your muse comes in through the window,
    looks you in the eye
    and give tunes to your fingers.

    When you write, you get naked,
    loves, fears, fears and dislikes
    they come from the deep end,
    they wander through your memories.

    When you write, you let off steam,
    you live and dream and create an unimaginable world.
    You multiply life, you conquer death,
    you are untouchable and eternal.

    When you write you feel, you get ideas
    occur in your head without permission,
    and you get them out of you because you’ve been beaten;
    passion takes over you, your emotions.
    and dare to bewitch the world.

    When you write you perceive the freedom
    because you’re so full of life that death doesn’t exist….





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    You decided to wait….

    You have decided to wait for a love that fills every moment of your life, that knows your delusions, that loves your ghosts, fears and doubts.

    You’ve decided to wait for love,
    to accept your longings, dreams and illusions,
    that are part of your life and
    to surrender to them without fear.

    You’ve decided to wait for love,
    to wipe away the tears of that treacherous man,
    to remove the scars from your heart,
    and leave behind dismal memories of gray, colorless days

    A love that releases your passion and fantasies,
    the one who holds your hand before the world,
    to open up his soul, his spirit and
    his whole being with nothing in return,
    without fears or complexes.

    You decided to wait for a love,
    without the certainty of who he’ll be or where he’ll be,
    but in the hope of an encounter on a road,
    a path that leads to dreams,
    a path full of promises kept,
    a path to happiness….

    You decided to wait for love,
    and though indolent weather,
    to show you the years in front of the mirror,
    your conviction shelters that being,
    that you know will be there at the end for you.
    You decided to wait for a love….

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    Dizzying companion!

    So impetuous, and cruel at times.
    leaving wounds, experiences,
    going on in my life without a break,
    feeling like you have the power.

    Your lightness scares me, I’d like to stop you!
    I can’t control you even if I wanted to,
    So it’s all up to you?
    sometimes I feel like you were my enemy,
    others so dear in my life.

    I know, you heal my wounds,
    thanks to you in the face of adversity, I look to the horizon,
    leaving bitter moments to be forgotten.
    But you also wear me out,
    you make me weak,
    your inexorable presence overwhelms me.

    In you I look for moments trapped,
    clean, vivid memories,
    remembrances that make me smile.

    And though you will escape my fleeting life at some point,
    your passing will leave scars, marks, signs
    and you’ll continue to make your mark in the mirror,
    before that last breath when I say goodbye to you, Time…

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